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Monthly Archives: February 2012

Remembering Ways to Relate to Your Teen

28 Tuesday Feb 2012

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Parent, Teenagers

 

You would think that after parenting five teenagers (one is still at home) that I have become an expert in the field–not really. Each one of them developed their own personality, aspired to different dreams, and looks at the world differently. Yep, you guessed it. They are all different!

Last week one of our elders at church spoke on the subject of parenting teenagers and I’d like to share them with you. They came to me as fresh reminders that I am not in charge–God is!

1. Remember how scared you were when you were a teen?

2. Remember you didn’t want to be around your parents?

3. Remember you tried on identities like you tried on clothes. As a parent, try to discern what they are “buying” into and not just what they trying on.

4. Remember that some of your learning came from making mistakes. Don’t be a “helicopter” parent, i.e. don’t hover over your kids. We want to keep them from regrets, not mistakes. Regrets are foolishness.

5. Remember the enticements of the world. It shouldn’t surprise us when the world seems enticing because all your teen has known is the church. I can relate to this as a homeschool parent!

6. Remember the weaknesses of your own parents. You don’t have to be a great parent but a faithful one. We don’t have all the answers.

7. Remember that the God who rescued you will be faithful to them. He will rescue them as well.

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Still I’m longing Lord

26 Sunday Feb 2012

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I’m longing for your love and your heart and your way. I’ve been a Christian for 30 years and I’m still longing for your love. My heart seeks through the night for your spirit to hear your holy will. I am still wanting more!

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Paul’s Four Doctrines to the Corinthian Church

24 Friday Feb 2012

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Bible Study, Second Epistle to the Corinthians

Here is this week’s Men’s Bible Study Notes on 2 Corinthians1:12-24 Feb 22, Part 2 and just the beginning of the second chapter which we will get into next week. Thanks Bill!

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Current Reading/Music List

17 Friday Feb 2012

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Books/Articles:

A Praying Life, by Paul. E. Miller, in preparation for his seminar

Dug Down Deep, by Joshua Harris, as homework for the Explorer’s Class

Depression and Hope, by Howard Stone, professional reading

Worship Matters, by Bob Kauflin, in preparation for his seminar

Music:

Another Realm, by Iona

Looking Into Light, by Joanne Hogg

In Christ Alone: New Hymns of Prayer and Worship, by Margaret Becker, Maire Brennan, and Joanne Hogg

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Resisting Sin by Abiding In Christ

16 Thursday Feb 2012

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Bill’s study, as always, was right on the mark and then some. We finished the first chapter of 2 Corinthians and as the title of the study notes suggest I am now more aware of how crucially important it is to abide in Christ. Nothing else really matters except the Word of God to a people who are desperate for grace. Enjoy the study notes. Copy of 2 Corinthians1 15to24Feb15

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Community, Charity, Church, and the Veteran

15 Wednesday Feb 2012

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Many of us have heard heartrending stories about post-traumatic stress disorder, traumatic brain injury, suicide and homicide within the military. Then, there are the realities — the economics of trimming budgets, global dangers and stagnant unemployment.

The Department of Defense (DOD) is a complicated web of budget, readiness, equipment and personnel, to say the least. “Administrative discharge” is one of many insidious consequences of downsizing and budget cuts.  Keeping a “quality force” is a military term used to define a smaller defense budget which often times leads to immoral mistreatment of those who have served and who are now suffering as a direct result of their past service.

I remember it well. Twenty years ago after Desert Shield/Storm the euphemistic term was “right-sizing” the military. In order to “right-size”  broken or injured soldiers who were not able to “perform” had to leave the military.

Currently we are witnessing  men and women getting out of uniform during one of the worst economic downturns in recent history and find themselves jobless and homeless.  Unemployment among veterans is twice the rate of their civilian counterpart. Many struggle to adjust and learn new skills. The hardship can be unbearable, and 18 veterans a day commit suicide. There are not enough park benches to accommodate them.

Recently I’ve been reading quite a number of articles and books on the subject of Christian charity. Many of you know that Christian charity has been the distinguishing hallmark of the Church for many centuries. Unfortunately, for a number of reasons, it has fallen into neglect in our day, particularly in the church. And yet a careful examination of Scripture reveals how believers are mandated to reclaim their place in this area of community involvement.

Jesus says, “Love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength; and love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:36-40). Meditating on this scripture immediately brings to mind that Jesus was not advocating the principle of “survival of the fittest”. Rather, He was identifying closely with the plight of the weak and  alienated. What impact is the invisible or local church making with these veterans who suddenly find themselves alienated from community and the work force? How do the people of God get on board “loving them as their neighbor” in order to fulfill Jesus’ mandate?

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The Beauty of Charitable Judgments

11 Saturday Feb 2012

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1 Corinthians 13

Last Sunday’s sermon focused on the subject of love. Jared’s text was 1 Corinthians 13:1-7. He spoke on charitable judgement and defined it as, “Christian love assumes this posture toward others that is incline to believe the best about them and hope the best for them. This is the Beauty of Charitable Judgments”.

After listening to the sermon ask yourself how often you practice charitable judgments towards others. I walked away very convicted. 

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The Circumcision of the Heart with New Tablets of Stone

03 Friday Feb 2012

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Bible, Bible Study, Christ, Christianity, God, Second Epistle to the Corinthians

The Men’s Bible Study on 2 Corinthians 1:12-14 was deep, convicting and practical. Thanks Bill! 

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